So on October 31, 2009 my Tarzan lost his job. Now, up until this point, I'd say our 26 year marriage on a scale of 1 to 10 was probably a 3 to 4. Not great communication, not much working together, we'd be nice but probably could have been a lot nicer to one another. Crankiness was often among the mix of said relationship. Well, a month passed and guess what happened? TRANSFORMATION. UTTER TRANSFORMATION. Now, I can tell you, it would be nice for him to find a job. But the miraculous thing is we've decided we actually like each other again! I don't know whether it was the stress component of his work or what but it's been a truly amazing thing to see! My kids can't believe the change and the whole relationship thing is working beautifully! I wouldn't wish a lost job on anyone in this economy, but if there was ever a blessing to come out of a something like this, yay for this hardship's reward! Hopefully the new year will bring a job but keep Tarzan's transformation. I want to shout from the roof top that this Jane loves her Tarzan!
August 27.2012
13 years ago

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